After all these years I have many resolutions which never fruitioned.  This year, I would like to plan my wedding, lose weight, work hard to make my business successful, and of course, start my personal blog to write all about it.  After countless hours of obsessing over relationships and lilfe’s drama, I realilze what better way than to share my thoughts with the world and see what others have to say…I mean am I a quirky weirdo or are we all growing more confused, wondering if we are fullfilling our destiny, if we even have a destiny, and what it really mans to find true love…assuming it does exist.  There’s so many questions we don’t know the answers to but we all choose to be positive and hopeful…sometimes lying to ourselves.  Whether in relationships or just life in general, is it better to live in a happy lie, or to be truthful to yourself and be miserable?