I am not a huge fan of Dr. Phil but I do beieve his philophy on not going to bed angry.  It feels like the anger builds up, to the point where I have trouble sleeping…plus doesn’t it build up resentment towards your partner?  When we are young, fighting with a boyfriend was crazy, throwing things, name calling, and worst yet, punching the wall or phone.  As we get older, we have to learn to sleep on it because we have to work the next day.  It will not be fruitful to scream the night away so both of us can have a bad day at work and get fired from our jobs.  But it does bother me when Mr. Right goes to bed with no problem while I am up late into the night, wondering if I should apologize or wait for him to come around.  Half the time I don’t really know what I did to set him off.  Based on some wisdom from my happily married friends, it appears that the woman always have to suck it and be the bigger person.  Is this true for most women?